March 23, 2012 |
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I never felt such a strong urge to lick the screen?!?!?
Urge not resisted. I demand recipes…because store bought just won’t do. Pa pa pa please!
Yeah, same here! I found a recipy once, but it was no good! Any recipes??
#19 looks a bit too much o.o
something negative and other times, I won’t even know the reaosn. Nothing was said, nothing happened, but he just gives me the silent treatment anyhow. It lasts for WEEKS every time. Currently it’s happening right now. This is Day 8 of him not speaking to me AT ALL. I have NO clue what happened. Everything was fine and then one day he woke up not talking and is just continuing it through now. He does not say ONE WORD to me, at all. He just refuses.I try to give him some space but I also extend the olive branch as well. I have told him 5 times over the last week, to tell me if something is wrong. This morning i felt so horrid about it, that I hugged him and broke down in tears while he was on the computer and you know what, he never looked away from that screen never hugged me back nothing. I cannot imagine ever doing this to anyone who was obviously in pain and crying, but he does it to me. He acts fine toward our child and is nice to her and plays with her, then walks past me in the hallway as if I am the wall.I am a very verbal person. I never have a problem telling people my feelings, so he is the antithesis of me. i don’t understand how someone can give another person the silent treatment and treat them as if they don’t even exist. That to me, would be like a form of torture. It’s simply not in my comprehension. We have been together for 8 years married for 5 and have a preschooler together. I hate that she sees this I do not want her to grow up feeling that it’s ok for people to ignore her and for a man to treat her this way. I can’t cry in front of her about it, so I try to remain strong, but it’s hard. Yet I don’t know what to do. Most times my husband is a fantastic man but when this happens I feel like the scum of the earth. I am not even important enough for him to speak to and that tears my heart out. He ignores me if I cry, or try to talk to him. I’ve tried it all, even yelling nothing works. So, I basically try to sink into the background until he’s over whatever it is that is making him silent. It hurts SO much. It is literally a physical pain in my heart. But I don’t think there is anything I can do about it, as I have tried everything. His excuse is that his dad always did this to his mom when he got angry about something, so now my husband is doing it to me but that”s a crap excuse if you ask me.We did go to counseling for it 3 years ago and he promised he would never do it again. He started out very welll with it, verbalizing when he was angry, and I would listen very carefully and be sure to keep an even temper and be very sympathetic and understanding, as I wanted him to continue talking instead of the silent treatment .but over the years we have gone right back to the same old routine. And he gets VERY angry if he knows I talk to anyone about it; he feels that our arguments should be private .I don’t know how to deal with it, but I love my husband and I don’t want to leave. Therefore I am just invisible when this happens. I am nobody nothing. I hate to feel like he doesn’t care about me, but he surely acts like it. It has gone as long as 14 days before. It kills me inside.
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