October 30, 2012 |
In: Inspirational, Random
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#5 right!<img src="http://tinyurl.com/9xpuefo" width="1" height="1" />
My thought exactly. Come on, people. Why is that so hard to get right?
Not everyone's native language is English.
This is how I feel since my break up with my ex that I dated for almost 6 years… I feel as though my current boyfriend is temporary.
My thoughts exactly. I was with my ex for only 7 months, he was my first real love and I was so deeply in love with him that I seriously thought it was gonna last forever (I was 21), and it ended in a horrible breakup. I ended up on the street with all my stuff that he tossed in bags for half a day until my mum came to get me. That shock is still lasting. I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and he is the best person I've ever known, we're talking about getting married in a few years and stuff, but sometimes I still think "You won't even remember my name by then…" But I'm trying to get over these thoughts, because I wanna be happy and if I keep thinking that, I won't. I'm hoping that that relationship (and yours) needed to fall apart so the real thing can come eventually.
Thank you for sharing and thank you for the encouragment
Things ended badly between him and I aswell–I moved across Canada with him/for him and he completely changed when we got to Calgary. He drank excessively, was ignorant to me, and it got to the point where I NEEDED to go home, so I did. He didn't say bye to me or drive me to the airport. The only person I knew in Calgary did, though. He tried messaging me 2 weeks after I got home (mind you, this was in September of this year) and I told him to never message me again.
The guy I am with now, I've known since I was 8 years old. He's a great guy and he loves me, but it's so hard to fall in love again after all of this….
I dont which one is worse, the memory of one brought on by these or the hope that the current doesnt become like this.
Holy Debbie Downer today ladies! *sigh*
Berry's posts make me sad.
Sometimes we all need a little sad to appreciate the really good.
#2 – Nice words.<img src="http://s01.flagcounter.com/count/7uR/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/" alt="." width="1" border="0" />
Well, this was a depressing post.
#12 I wish I could just do this.
I thought the exact same thing when I saw this…what makes a breakup the worst for me is not being able to hate the guy because you still love him.
Woe is me.
I'm going back to the Chive – thumbs down for the Berry.
Sappy Vaginas end up alone, just fyi.
Not necessarily– our feelings can be turned into happiness, it just takes the right person and it takes time.
This I agree with fully, it does take time and the right person – but in the mean time there is no need to grovel over what once was, I mean, really ladies, find some inner strength, have a drink, move on to the next and stop wasting your time weeping over what hadn't worked.
You're gonna miss the right one if you are too caught up in missing the wrong.
DAMNIT I meant to downvote this but it won't let me. Sorry some of us have feelings and actually feel them.
I'm not heartless I have feelings too, I just choose to feel the ones that matter and don't make me feel like a bag of shit on a Tuesday.
Really come on, we should be posting uplifting galleries to make women feel BETTER about their failed relationships, not worse.
haha I just find it funny. Mind if I tap some maple out of the sap?
Nah, you have feelings and overexaggerate them because you enjoy drama.
#17 i'm an artist, i know period blood when i see some
#18 This is fucking EVIL….
I don't understand why that's evil? He deserves to be happy and she obviously has something to bring to the table – also, you should "be with him now…." Rather than being upset about who he is or isn't with.
I just don't get women.
You really do need to go back to theChive. Just sayin'. You said you would…
I don't even remember my ex, but just know that I miss her and my heart still aches..
And that's the least manly thing I've ever said..
Lotta free milk out there, you don't hafta be buyin' no cows…
UGH THIS WAS PROBABLY THE MOST PATHETIC BERRY POST I'VE SEEN. EMO TO THE MAX! Excuse me while I go slit my wrists…
Some of us have feelings! Sorry not sorry
#14 Yeeeaaah. I get that.
No joke!! I've stopped that and taken away the temptation.
#14 SO. TRUE.
Actually I think these posts are great. Recently split with a guy a few months ago. Some of you may find this post depressing or whatever but I'm sure there are plenty of ladies and gentlemen out there who appreciate it. It's nice to share and feel like you're not the only one in the big wide world going through emotional crap and I totally love the Berry for recognizing that.
If there can be posts celebrating how great Love is then there can be posts to illustrate the total opposite. It's a matter of balance.. so the people with all their 'Aww, this is soooo depressing' comments should grow the f### up. It's not a fricken' downer, it happens, it's reality. Everyone goes through this and there's nothing wrong with feeling a little crap for a while before you move on with your life. Thanks for the post Berry!
I agree, and thanks Berry! This is such a beautiful compolation I think and I appreciate the raw beauty it holds. It's good to admit it, let it take you over so you can begin to move on. And it's ok to miss the good parts and remember why it fell apart.
#7 Yeah…that's me
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Thanks for the post Berry!
#5 Never regret anything that made you smile
For some this may be exactly what they needed for the day! and I have to say I love the name of the post.
#21 Love The Wanted quote! <3
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