Here’s where women suffer most. “Think about chugging a beer in college. Open the throat. The benefit is it feels tight (the pressure) on the penis, and guys LOVE it. To train yourself, lie flat on your back and let your head tip over the edge of the mattress,” says Morishita. In this position your throat is wide open.
“Now, your partner stands over you and inserts his penis into your mouth and then throat,” says Morishita. Tell him to go gentle. It’s okay to be honest. “Eventually, you’ll develop a feel for it, and you’ll be able to open your throat in almost any position without gagging,” says Morishita.