This year, I came out as gray. No, I’m not a fan of 50 Shades of Grey, I’m the opposite. I feel sexual attraction, but it has to be under the right circumstances. I’m almost asexual, but I do feel sexual attraction. When I told my family and friends, I got mixed reactions. Though I am attracted to men, my sexuality is very different from my friends and family.
Many people were confused or didn’t understand me at all. I had questions to answer and reactions to deal with. I wanted to share my experience with all of you in the hopes that it might shed some light on what it means to be gray.