11 Women Confess The Craziest Things They Watch In Porn

I asked people to confess what sort of porn they’re watching – especially the super secret, super dirty stuff — and how it differs from their IRL sex lives. And because I’m extra nosy, I wanted to know what their spouses — if applicable — think about their private time. And so here we are. And I must say, the responses are more specific and unapologetic than the confessions I got from men.

So, please don’t feel bad about your quirky fantasies. Chances are, someone, somewhere, is getting off to it…right now.

Related: 10 Guys Confess Their Super Secret Porn Watching Habits

1. I’m all about hentai porn and tentacle rape.

“I watch it when I’m in a relationship, and I’ve watched it together with one partner, before and during sex. Personally, I love hentai, mostly reluctant or non-consensual scenarios. Also, tentacle rape (no judging!) That totally is not related to my IRL sex life, because consent is the most important thing to me. As far as none-animated porn, I like a mixed bag: Japanese bus porn, sex in public, light bondage. Straight, lesbian, and gay-I’ll watch them all.” – Vera

2. I love to look at men even though I’m with a woman.

“When I look at porn, I definitely watch things that tend to contradict my “real” sex life. I’m in a committed relationship with a woman, but we’re both bisexual, and porn allows me to watch things we don’t do IRL — sex with men, penetrative sex, threesomes (with any gender combination). My girlfriend and I are both totally cool with things like this and sometimes we role-play what we see in porn. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with porn or any other kind of sexual fantasy while you’re in a relationship.” — Becca

3.  I’m a rape survivor, but I totally have rape fantasies.

“Probably the most salacious thing I’ve enjoyed in porn is the idea of a rape fantasy. I really hate that word, and I’d rather use the word “control fantasy.” As a rape survivor myself, this is such a taboo topic, but I really enjoy the idea of giving someone complete control… as long as it’s done so consensually. The difference for me, between being totally dominated by someone for sexual purposes, and rape, is that I’m giving them consent and ultimately the control is in my hands.”— Devin

4. I like when women make men drink their own semen.

I watch a lot of weird stuff, like men milking pregnant boobs or women squirting compilations. I especially like watching women make men drink their come. I guess it’s a power thing for me, even though I’m a submissive IRL. But I wouldn’t tell anyone this. I’m not even sure I want to admit it myself. Ugh. — Dana

5. I am all about those gay blowjobs.

“I love watching gay boys suck each other off. It’s more than just the penis. I want to watch them degrade one another. I don’t feel bad about it at all. I wish my boyfriend would suck someone off, but he wouldn’t, ever.” — Alissa

6. I watch porn based on my mood, not my fetish.

“The porn I watch is in no way related to my sex life. I don’t care if my partner watches, and I am perplexed by anyone who equates porn with infidelity. If it is replacing intimacy rather than enhancing it, then you have a problem. As I’ve gotten older and become a parent, I’ve become less accepting of porn that demeans and devalues women. Or men. And so much porn seems to be about treating women like subservient garbage. I don’t understand how we got to this point. Sexuality can be such a powerful and beautiful thing and I think pornorgraphy can either reinforce that, or turn it into something ugly and violent. My preferences tend to be driven by mood, rather than “fetish.” – Jessica

7. I’m into the pretend incest stuff.

“Give me dads and step-daughters in the kitchen, milfs and her kids or her kids’ friends. Brother and sisters or whatever. I know it’s really fucked up, especially since I have a brother and that thought is vomit-inducing. Sometimes I wonder what’s wrong with me, but I know that the wrong aspect that I find so alluring. It’s why I like to cheat, I hate to say. It’s not emotional and maybe not even sexual. It’s power.” — Drea

8. I love watching lesbians with huge boobs.

“I’m in a 100% straight relationship but I do want to be with women for fun. So I look at a look of lesbian porn, girls with huge boobs because mine are pretty small. I can’t get off looking at dicks and I think about tits when I’m having sex. But I would never want to date a woman. I don’t really tell my boyfriend. Although I’m crazy sexual, I just feel dirty and gross and wrong. He would LOVE if I watched it. Once he caught me masturbating and was so enthralled. I was so regretful. I’m not religious, I’m sex-positive and my shame is like my own weird secret.” – Trina

9. No fake boobs, and no mouth to ass, ever. But please bring me teacher-student sex.

“I’m married and monogamous. I watch porn a few times per month, by myself mostly, and my husband knows and doesn’t care what kind I watch. I like watching one woman with two men, two women together, male teacher and female student, women masturbating, and scenarios where a wife is banging someone else besides her husband (but only if this is more spontaneous, like a random hot repairman or something, not like a planned thing). I like for the man to be dominant and rough as long as no one is humiliated. I also prefer for it not to end in a facial (that has always seemed such a stupid act to me). Also no mouth on ass at ANY time. Freaks me out! I like actors who look real. No fake boobs under any circumstances. Women with realistic bodies and hair. Same for the men. Not a lot of makeup. In real life, I’m a pretty sexual person, and I do like to be submissive in the bedroom most of the time. My husband isn’t quite as dominant as I’d prefer, but it works out just fine.” – Angela

10. I’m all about listening to and reading porn.

“I totally watch, read, and listen to porn/erotica. Sometimes straight and sometimes lesbian porn. I’m bisexual. I also enjoy listening to audio of people having sex. In particular I like porn where both people, but especially the woman, are really into it. He knows I watch porn when I’m solo, and sometimes we’ll read erotica or listen to it together. We don’t really watch it together, as for some reason I find it kind of embarrassing. I think it’s leftover religious guilt that crops up in the strangest ways. I also like non-traditional kinds of “porn” or stuff that isn’t quite porn, but it is, like Hysterical Literature or Beautiful Agony. “ — Dina

11. I’m into hardcore stuff, like extreme degradation.

“The only porn I really look at is on Tumblr. I look at really hardcore BDSM. I look at gang rapes and women constrained in various crazy ways, being violated with instruments and being humiliated. I have always needed my fantasy life to be more intense than my real life. In real life I also enjoy bring dominated and constrained, but to a much lesser degree. I have noticed I get off on scenes of extreme degradation, bondage, or inappropriate ages. I used to have a Lolita complex and in my teens I was always trying to seduce older men. I got off on making them want me.” – Desdemona

Related: 10 Struggles Of Being A Woman With A High Sex Drive

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