Let’s be honest: The feelings you get when you flirt are amazing. Butterflies flutter in your chest, your pulse races, you feel witty, confident, sexy. But when you’re in a relationship, chances are you and your bae communicate in a different way. Sure, you probably still flirt, but it’s not as thrilling, if only because you know one another. And you know you want one another.
And when you’re in a relationship, there’s something a little bit dangerous, rebellious, and yeah, just plain ~fun~ about flirting with someone other than your partner. Is it harmless, though? Well, that’s up for debate. Here, 17 attached women and men open up about flirting with other people.